If you're the easily distracted, mind wandering type, have no fear. A short attention span may actually be an asset, when paired with mindfulness.
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Seeing power and submission at work in your life can give you a better balance. hen I read about dominatrixes getting into life coaching and personal development, my immediate reaction was that this was a perfect example of the craziness of the world, and a very US west coast thing.
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Beyond the MAD and ANGER....the puppet master is laughing. We all get mad at some Time or another, but what you do with that anger is totally up to you. Kiss tells you about this anger and how to let it go in another one of her very helpful videos you will surely love.
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Does Facebook Know your child more than you do? I bet anything they really do,no doubt about it. Period, full stop. Put the phone down and look up, wow there is a child there, who is also stuck to that phone and will have a temper tantrum like you read about. Yes your child.
Young children are closely attuned to their parents’ attention. They depend on that attention for their survival, of course, but also for their social and emotional development. Several recent research studies show the damage parents can do when they’re physically present, but distracted and less responsive because they’re attending to their smartphones.
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Study #1: Moms on cellphones have children who are more negative and less resilient.
In one study, published in Developmental Science, infants and toddlers from seven months to two years old were assessed for temperament, social engagement, exploration, and post-disruption reunion and recovery. The researchers reported that children expressed more distress, and were less likely to explore their environment, when their mothers were using their cell phones.
The young children whose mothers reported greater habitual use of mobile devices outside the lab showed more negativity, and less emotional recovery, when their mothers did turn off their phones. The researchers concluded, “Like other forms of maternal withdrawal and unresponsiveness, mobile-device use can have a negative impact on infant social-emotional functioning and parent-child interactions.”
Study #2. Children feel unimportant, and have to compete with smartphones for parents’ attention.
In a large international study of six thousand eight- to thirteen-year-old children, 32 percent reported feeling “unimportant” when their parents use their cellphones during meals, conversations, or other family times. The children reported competing with technology for their parents’ attention. Over half of the children in the study said their parents spend too much time on their phones.
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What! Did you hear what I was saying...or not saying. Do you ears close when a persons speech reaches a higher octive? I bet they do, I has been proven that when a person yells at another, the higher their voice volume the less the person being yelled at actually hear anything other than blah, blah, blah. No recall of the actual word, well many swear words top the list but hey, bring it down a couple of notches to get better results. and..
... So how can you turn listening from a shortcoming to a superpower?
Let's start with what listening is not (though in my experience this covers much of what passes for listening in business). Listening is not transactional; listening is not passive; listening is not waiting your turn to talk.
Superpower listening is different — it's active, it's curious, it's creative, and it's collaborative. And most importantly, it's a performance.
And performing as a listener has everything to do with improvisation. If you've ever seen improv comedy, you've experienced the kind of magic that takes place as people perform what looks and sounds like a very funny, well-rehearsed script. But there is no script. No rehearsal. No plan.
Improvisers can create theater without a script for one reason: They are awesome listeners. Improvisers perform listening in a very particular way. They listen to build with others. They listen to create with others. They listen to collaborate with others. Improvisers are open and willing to say yes to their co-performers, follow them anywhere, and co-create with everything they are given. I call this act of listening hearing offers.
And in every conversation, you're presented with all kinds of offers. Even if the opposite appears to be the case. A colleague ignoring your question is an offer. Your team getting the research that you asked for done early is an offer. A client saying he's not interested in whatever you have to sell is an offer. A laugh at your joke is an offer. Your boss not looking up at you when you come into her office is an offer. All of this — the good, the bad, and the to-be-determined — they're all offers that you can create with, if you hear them.
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I live my passion
I am living my soul mission
This is not work to me
I found something I absolutely love
I am living a dream in every moment
My soul mission
So many dream of this and we do not need to dream it. We are living experiencing our mission which is to Unconditionally self love divinely
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When you first awaken and discover that you chose to incarnate on this Earthly plane for a special reason, the thrill is on.
After walking a path of service for some time, it’s easy to find yourself giving and sacrificing everything for the cause.
It seems noble and true, but concentrating all your energy to ‘save the world’ strips away some of the key life experiences you’re here to have.
‘Your soul mission is not so much something you do, but is the energy or passion that drives everything you do.’
How we show up everyday in the micro-interactions with others. Our presence, the energetic intention we ripple out.
My current understanding of my own soul mission is:
I am a manifestation of Source so expansive as to defy definition.
Being a soul in service is divine, it’s what gets me going first thing in the morning.
Yet, what’s equally divine is watching your loved one’s face light up when you’re fully present. Listening to the mesmerizing croak of a million frogs after a hard, pounding rain. Resting when you need to, summoning up a belly laugh from deep down in your gut.
It’s not necessary to self-sacrifice, the contribution you are making is more than enough. You are more than enough.
Be mindful your soul mission doesn’t become your sole mission.
Imagine knowing your life’s purpose so clearly you could state it boldly without hesitation in a few powerful words. Imagine living every day in complete alignment with that purpose, giving an important gift to the world — a gift that is uniquely yours.
I am here to remove and shatter the old paradigm and to bring us all into ALIGNMENT. To raise the earths vibrations to the sacred feminine energy and bring us back into Oneness. One is how we began and one we will return to. Unity and centralizing INTERCONNECTIVITY of our interconnectedness.
Everyone seeks their mission or purpose in life. The best way to figure that out is to understand the nature of reality as a holographic illusion set in linear time to experience emotions. Souls are experiencing in virtual reality that had a beginning and rapidly approaches its end, hence the Age of Technology and Spiritual Awareness.
Now more than ever people want to return to the spiritual feelings of love, light, and consciousness. If you're lucky your programmed to figure it out young if not you may not understand until the end when reality Fades to Black.
There is something about entering 2019 this year that speaks to me of a major event that is going to change everything in the near future. From that point in time nothing will ever be the same. The need to heal and find spiritual purpose - meaning the true reason you're here - will become more and more dominant in people's thoughts and thus manifest your reality.
You were very likely going through the process of healing yourself and others to become more aware or as they say raise your frequency. Keep along this path in the years that remain in the holographic experience we call our reality. At the end everyone will have the answer and know their spiritual purpose. It starts with the self and awareness of our souls purpose which is to experience love.
So How can I know my highest purposes?
If only all questions were so easy to solve.
Realizing your nature as an eternal, infinite, and integral soul bestows many gifts. One is trusting yourself enough to follow your greatest joys. What clearer way could Creator reveal your unique path than by what you are excited and passionate about?
“If you follow your bliss, you put yourself on a kind of track that has been there the whole while, waiting for you, and the life you ought to be living is the one you are living.”
Follow your heart, do what you feel called to do. Trust your intuition, that wise inner voice that guides you about every aspect of your life. The pieces of life’s puzzle will fall in place as more and more people—starting with you—pursue their bliss. It’s like the old hide the button game: when you’re enthusiastic, you’re getting hotter.
Your soul, in alignment with divine order, chose important missions before you came to earth. Clues to those missions are revealed by your greatest dreams and desires. You and everyone else have life visions and special talents to share. Universe supports everyone, especially those who intend to bring peace, joy, love and light to the fore on earth.
This is not just lofty, impractical spiritual advice; it’s useful information that can increase the quality and, likely, the quantity of your life. For example, the most common time for heart attacks is early Monday morning. Day after day, year after year of following a path that’s not in alignment with your highest purpose can eventually impact your anatomical heart.
I’ve counseled a number of persons who hated their work, but were afraid to follow their bliss. “After I retire, then I’ll start that little business I’ve always dreamed of,” they say. When I ask about their life’s dream, they invariably pause for a moment. Then their eyes light up as they describe what they would do “if only…” The truth is, each personcanfollow his or her calling. Doing so, at least part-time, is a key to experiencing heaven on earth.
Attending to your soul’s mission is usually a multi-dimensional process. Most people have numerous roles in life—family member, significant other, friend, worker, church member, community participant,and individual. Following your bliss doesn’t mean forsaking all other roles and just focusing on one aspect. On the contrary, being totally successful and achieving your soul’s mission means meeting all your roles impeccably.
Fulfilling your various roles can be challenging, but it’s possible. Making a commitment to identify and pursue your dreams is a first step. Some people have the circumstances and chutzpah to make abrupt changes and follow their bliss full time. Others may choose to make a more gradual transition over time. Whichever path you choose, start now!
Let yourself dream for a moment using your fullest imagination, then answer this question: “If you knew you could not fail, how would you live?” Let the images flow and feel the excitement as, perhaps for the first time, you become aware of your soul’s callings. Following them will put you in touch with the joy and purpose that is your birthright.
At the same time, be wise about it. A Middle Eastern saying about this is: “Trust Allah, but tie up your camel.” Daily living requires a certain income to survive so don’t rush off and quit your day job prematurely. Stay with your current work and expand your services until you naturally grow into your higher calling.
To begin identifying your soul’s purpose, close your eyes, let yourself become relaxed, and ask for assistance from God and the Heavenly host. Give thanks for guidance and assistance in realizing your soul’s missions. Then listen quietly for that still small voice within. Note anyclue sthat arise spontaneously such as words, pictures, feelings, colors, people and places. Now answer the following questions by noting the very first responses that spontaneously arise:
What are you naturally good at?
What would you do if money were no object?
What would you do if you had only one year to live?
What would you do without pay because you enjoy it?
What do you read and talk about in your spare time?
What chokes you up, gives you goose bumps, cold chills, and tears in your eyes or pressure over your chest?
How do you feel called to assist others and global transformation?
Don’t think that your soul’s mission has to single-handedly change the world. The old church hymn, “Brighten the corner where you are” lends a hint. Do the best you can within your sphere of influence and know that’s enough. Let your compassionate heart show you who needs help and how. And don’t forget to put yourself on your list of priorities.
Someday you will fly away from this demanding but wonderfully instructive classroom. Until then, you have special missions and purposes to share at this time and place. Your task is to learn, love, serve, enjoy and leave this planet a better place than when you arrived. Why not do so with style and grace as a totally successful human who clearly remembers your magnificent soul nature!
Just love unconditionally Starseeds
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Everything you ever wanted to know about Roy Cohn in Angels in America, Part One: Millennium Approaches, written by masters of this stuff just for you.
[NOTE, MINE: Roy Cohn was a Self-hating Jew and a homosexual. Trump sat at his knee from early 20s onward and seemingly worshiped him. That to me is interesting in that ..one has to wonder, with all the data now available about 'grooming' sexual assault victims, if Trump's attitude toward women, distinctly not positive, came from...his experiences with this monster.]
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We have to wonder what Roy would've turned out like in a world where homosexuality was accepted. Would he have been the same bitter man if he'd been able to be open about his sexuality?
[NOTE, MINE: I have wondered that about Trump. His attitude toward women is NOT the attitude of a normal man.]
Mustache-Twirling Villain
Roy Cohn, a powerful conservative lawyer, is one of best villains ever to walk across a stage. Based on a real-life communist-hating figure, Kushner's Roy is unrepentantly vicious while still managing to be a complex and interesting character.
Over the course of the play, we see just how wicked Roy can be. First we learn that he's borrowed money from a client (in itself illegal) and he's trying to weasel out of repaying the loan.
When Roy offers to hook Joe up with a job in the Justice Department, we might think for a moment that he's a nice guy. We might say, "Aw, look, Roy might be a little rough around the edges, but here he is taking a young man under his wing." That bubble is swiftly popped, however, when we learn that Roy only wants to send Joe to Washington, DC, so that he can do unethical things to help keep Roy from getting disbarred.
[NOTE, mine: Kavanaugh..impeachment... ring a bell?]
In Roy's last scene of Millennium Approaches, we learn his biggest sin: he was responsible for the execution of Ethel Rosenberg. Roy was the Assistant US Attorney on this famous Cold War case in which the Ethel Rosenberg, her husband Julius, and others were accused of being Soviet spies. In the play, Roy brags about how he illegally coerced the judge into giving Ethel the death penalty. Roy is totally unrepentant about this and lists it as the thing he's most proud of. He brags to Joe:
'I would have f--ing pulled the switch if they'd have let me. Why? Because I f--ing hate traitors. Because I f**king hate communists. Was I legal? F--k legal. Am I a nice man? F--k nice.' (3.5.19)
[NOTE, MINE:
"I could shoot a man on Fifth Avenue and get away with it." (Trump. quote)]
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Track it Back, Back it up mind mapping and inner reflection
Heres a technique I created that I call "Track it back, Back it up"
This tool utilizes neuroscience and reconnects the neuro web/map
This is used for uncovering anything in your mind. Tracing where feelings and emotions are stored in our brain.
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It reconnects the neurotransmitters, the synapses of the neurons and muerons.
So to move past the science let's get into understanding how to use the technique to increase awareness, make your mind fire and react quicker which ultimately makes you smarter be reconnecting broken of pieces of your neuroweb.
Our mind is a map. A map that at every moment is mapping and remapping itself learning, understanding and providing insight into our own individual intelligence and logic.
An example would be.
Your born
You feel a feeling or emotional state or experience state of mind (Let's say you feel happy)
Your mind instantly creates a start and maps from there drawing it out.
You then see the color blue and it makes you happy
You then get a kiss from your new mother and father and well the are both wearing blue
So what has happened here is you felt happy then that connects to blue, connects to kisses, connects to mother and father and connects to love and warmth in a web of interconnectedness.
Click link to read the rest of this tool
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Happiness changes over the course of your life in somewhat surprising ways.
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Man is born straight and free, but everywhere he is in fuzzy rainbow handcuffs. Heroes in ancient times boasted to friends of sacking and plundering cities; today they brag to strangers of buttock-burglary or cutting off balls to impersonate woman. Man has lost his natural virility and with it his purpose, beauty, and joy in life. Bronze Age Pervert has come to save you from a great faggotry.
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The iconic Dutch horror film The Human Centipede by director Tom Six was released in 2009 and produced some rather visible reactions.
It was condemned for its revolting and grotesque scenes , which showed a German surgeon who kidnaps three tourists, tortures them, before he joins them surgically, mouth to anus, forming a "human centipede" - a conjoined triplet.
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The controversy would continue with Six's sequel to the film The Human Centipede 2 (Full Sequence), which was only released in the UK in 2011 after substantial cuts and edits, after the British Board of Film Classification (BBFC) refused to give the film an 18 certificate unless the film cut a large number of graphic scenes - including masturbation with sandpaper, rape with barbed wire, and the brutal murder of a newborn baby...{{more www.mirror.co.uk/film/true-story... }}
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Good advice is timeless so no matter the day or year the information Sheila gives has no end date, best used by date or expired date. She will always be honest and reliable, for every topic she shares. One of many stellar teachers of the human condition. Whatever the issue you may have, it is most likely been addressed with Ms. Sheila. Be well, be safe.
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The researchers found links between a lack of emotional understanding and right-wing attitudes. The concept of emotional intelligence was developed by Yale and University of New Hampshire researchers back in 1990, and it's all about how emotions impact thinking.
Measuring emotional intelligence can be tricky, so the test subjects went through three different tests for emotional abilities: the Situational Test of Emotional Understanding, the Situational Test of Emotion Management, and the Geneve Emotion Recognition Test.
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The results came back pretty clear.
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Carol Mason says friends weren't there for her when she was having a bad time. She says the people who are truly there for her are her husband and her mother.
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A WIFE who killed bludgeoned her husband to death after decades of “psychological torture” has revealed she still loves him. Sally Challen, 66, had been caged for life after admitting t…
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Why the Online Trolls Troll
8 reasons why some people feel comfortable posting the most offensive comments.
Why do people say such nasty things online? The online context often leads people to perceive it differently than face-to-face interaction. Unfortunately, this can result in some disinhibited and hurtful posting. ... This article investigates several factors that explain why people post offensive comments on social media and other outlets.
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MSNBC is an allegedly non-biased news outlet. All they do is report the facts, right?MSNBC calls it “incendiary” to say there are two genders
MSNBC is an allegedly non-biased news outlet. All they do is report the facts, right?
Last week, an anchor reported that a candidate for Governor “is out with a new TV ad this week, making incendiary comments about gender.”
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Here’s what he said: “As a Doctor, I can assure you, there are only two genders.”
To MSNBC, it is a newsworthy reportable fact that this statement is “incendiary.”
Not up for debate, not worthy of scientific thought, just incendiary… to state a basic fact that everyone agreed on until a couple years ago.
Click here for the full story.
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If the left knuckle has a tattoo reading “hate” and the right knuckle says “love”, then the forehead really should say “impulsive and reckless”.People who have a visible tattoo are more likely to act in haste and to fail to think through the consequences of their actions, according to a study of mor
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